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Cheating on a soldier while they are serving our country deserves a little humiliation. If you have been burnt by Jody while on duty, please send a tasteful photo of your X for the whole world to see. If you have a Dear John letter -even better, send that along as well. Click HERE to submit your photos and send all Dear John letters to brigadesubmit[at]gmail[dot]com
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My wife cheated on me with a commander of the 346th "Warrior Batalion", Maj. Daniel J. Ryals, while I was on active orders. I provided them phone records, e-mail conversations about "how much they loved each other", information about their lunch time flings (on military time), etc… They never punished him despite abundance of information.
At the time, his wife was 9 months pregnant with their 3rd child, and my wife and I had a few of our own. Amazing how many lives this ruined. After my years of service as an NCO, I am on my way out the door, as this left a bitter taste in my mouth. I also know he's had affairs with several other women. I don't know how his wife deals with this – she's still with him.
Anyone interested in more info on him can find his ashleymadison.com profile for the Hattiesburg MS area.
wow… Hope that name spread and people know to keep their wives away from that guy. Right on for posting name, rank, and unit. Karma will come back around. Stay strong.
If I knew a better way to get the word out, I would. His wife/her friend advised that my wife wasn't the first one either. His supervisors blew it off, despite the abundance of evidence. Nice to see the command staff banging everyone's wife and getting away with it, on the government dime. Some things you just don't forget. I don't intend on letting anyone forget – THIS COULD BE YOUR BOSS.
I’m so sorry sweetie. people deployed with my husband has had this happen, but your story has a lot to it. She doesn’t deserve a man like you
God bless all of you men and women serving <3
A man like him!? What the hell do you know about him?
I am an Army Ranger. I have spent 6 yrs of time between both fronts over the past 10, and I feel for each and every one of us that has received the "Dear John" or "Dear Jane". It happened to me twice. Once with a wife and once with a fiance, both while I was overseas. It is a hard life we have chosen to live. We are better for it! Karma will come around to kick each one of those cheating, lying, selfish individuals in the ass! If you are over there now, keep your heads down, eyes up and come back home. With great respect!
I have served for 18 years and been married to the same woman for the same. I have always said it take a stronger person to be a military spouse than it takes to be a military member. God bless all those who have stayed true to thier military member. My hat goes off to those spouses who also "Serve" thier coutry, diligently standing the watch on the home front taking care of thier family and continuously loving thier military member. It is most beneficial to those of us in harms way to know that our loved ones are tried and true.
I have been in the Navy 12 years married to the same girl for 16. I have never been unfaithful. While I am deployed one month ago she told me it was over between us 1.5 weeks later she told me she was seeing someone. Cheater or not that is the question?
My guess Tony? If she wasn't cheating, she had her mind on doing it. I'm sorry hun. Thank you for your service & sacrifices. Means the world to me.
My ex-husband was in the Army for 5 years. He left for Basic Training when our now 20 year old daughter was 2 months old. In the next 13 months, we saw him for 12 days. When she was 15 months old, we joined him in Baumholder, Germany. HHB DIVARTY, Unit 23709, I remember it still because of the 100's of letters I wrote to him. This was during the ethnic cleansing/systematic raping that was going on in Bosnia. He didn't tell me what he was doing, but I'm not an idiot. I'd seen him take elk from 700 yards. I knew that the Army was using that skill. And I was proud of him. I still am.
Knowing your spouse could die at any moment…knowing the chaplain could show up on your door step…disciplining your children alone all the time…trying to sleep alone but not ever resting peacefully…knowing that he is in mortal danger…it's an insane amount of pressure. Only the strongest of people can survive it without making some stupid mistakes. I'm not saying their actions are right because personally, I find this behavior reprehensible. I never put myself in a situation where I could have strayed. I am saying their actions are understandable.
The same thing can be said for those who are in the military fooling around on their spouse while deployed. Y'all are dealing with some pretty serious shit & if you take physical comfort with someone…well…it may not be "right" but it is understandable. Now if that relationship comes home, if children are conceived, if people lie continually simply because they want to get their rocks off? That's not okay. Man (or woman) up and do the right thing.
It boils down to this: Those who are in the military make tremendous sacrifices. So do their families. It is not easy. It is worthwhile. Living in Germany was spectacular. There were some places where the air itself was old. But in the end, it cost me my marriage. Although I am much happier now than I was years ago, I still had to come to grips with the fact that he wasn't the man I married any more. The things he had to do changed him, the choices he made in the civilian world weren't ones I could live with any more, so divorce was our only option. He is still my friend but I cannot trust him with my heart or body ever again.
This is why I thank those who choose to do this job. Y'all have my deepest gratitude because I know what it takes out of a family, even years after the soldier has gotten out of the service.
I have deep respect for you ma'm!
Ed
Sergeant Major
Royal Dutch Armed Forces
i joined the service to support my family. wife was pregnant and son was born exactly one week before boot camp. 2 years and another baby boy later, after 8 months of not seeing my kids or wife, i came home to her cheating on me with my best friend. me and him use to be so close he was supposed to be my sons godfather… but thats changed now. she had made comments on how she loved him so much, and all he could tell me was that i was stupid to think he loved her.. i wanted to break every bone in his body and make her watch… but i did nothing, because i didnt want my baby boys to see their daddy as a psyco, or in prison at that matter.
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